Before you begin a journey or relationship with someone, it’s wise to spend time knowing yourself because doing that will make you know the person you need to date or begin a relationship with.
The success of your relationship, to a large extent, depends on how well you love yourself.
The success of your relationship, to a large extent, depends on how well you love yourself.
Love and know yourself better because that’s the foundation of all relationships.
One reason some people fall for any kind of person who comes their way is that they are yet to know and understand who they are.
As a single person, one of your core assignments in life is to understudy yourself. To know what you have been destined for, identify your potential and your value system because a relationship isn’t something you just enter for the fun of it.
Who you date should reveal your kind of person.
Who you date should reveal your kind of person.
Know your purpose: Before God gave Adam a woman, he first gave him a purpose, and when the woman came, she came to help him fulfill his purpose.
So before you begin a relationship, know your purpose first. Knowing your purpose will help shape your decision and help you know the person to give access to your heart.
Understand Your Emotions: Understanding your emotions as a single person is an excellent tool, it will help you in making the right decision. For example, if you are the hot temper kind of person, it isn’t advisable to go into a relationship with someone that is a hot temper because you both will burn yourselves out with anger. Who you date should complement your emotions.
If you are still struggling to accept yourself for who you are, then you need to work on yourself because until you know and accept yourself properly, it will affect your relationship decisions negatively.
It’s important you spend time to know and understand yourself very well because you will attract your kind.
If you don’t understand yourself, you will end up confused when relationship requests start coming.
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2. Know what you want:
You may end up dating the wrong person if you don’t define what you want in a relationship.
I have seen some people rush into a relationship without defining what they hope or want to achieve in the relationship. And when they realize their mistakes, they fight so hard to define them, and most times it’s rather too late.
So before you rush or begin that next relationship, sit down and define what you want from that relationship as an individual.
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3. Be ready for the challenges:
Some people enter a relationship with beautiful thoughts and a rosy mentality that everything will be a smooth ride just the way they’ve fantasized it to be.
It’s good to have beautiful thoughts about relationships but also know that amid these beautiful thoughts there will be some roughness because you aren’t entering a relationship with a perfect person but an imperfect person.
You both are imperfect people, and this imperfectness will cause you both to experience some level of challenges, and you need to be ready to deal with them.
4. Be disciplined:
Relationship matters will demand lots of discipline from you. You may encounter some challenging situations that may cause you to lose your cool, and you need self-control to handle them.
Also, there are lots of distractions that often occur that might want to distract you from your relationship, but you need to be disciplined to stay focused.
So before you agree to begin a relationship, work on yourself to be focused and self-controlled because a relationship will demand a lot from you.
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5. It will affect your schedule:
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