Thursday, June 15, 2023

How To Ask For A Woman’s Phone Number: A Gentleman’s Guide!

How To Ask For A Woman’s Phone Number: A Gentleman’s Guide!

If you’re watching this you’ve probably been in a situation when you met an attractive woman and wanted to know how to ask for a woman’s phone number without sounding like a creep.

You’re not alone and it’s not your fault!

In today’s world of #metoo and cranky 4th-wave feminists, it can be terrifying to approach women never mind knowing how to ask for a woman’s phone number.

Sweaty palms, racing heartbeat, foggy thinking, second-guessing yourself—it’s natural to feel nervous and awkward.

But even though approaching and asking for a woman’s number can be nerve-wracking it is an essential part of the dating process because despite all those feminists over 85% of women still prefer men to initiate…

… because no matter how much radical feminism tries to brainwash women, our biology can’t be fooled.

So, if you’re one of the few men willing to initiate, you’ll be the one getting phone numbers and dates.

No matter what age you are, how to ask for a woman’s phone number doesn’t have to be intimidating!

How To Ask For A Woman’s Phone Number

In this video, you’ll learn my top 9 tips and tricks for how to:

  1. Know what to say and what not to say
  2. Not sound like every PUA who approaches her
  3. End the conversation leaving her wanting more
  4. Get her phone number with natural confidence and ease
  5. Know exactly when to follow up so you don’t come off as needy or shallow—THE TIMING WILL SURPRISE YOU!

Let’s get started!

Tip 1: Be confident and straightforward

Being confident and straightforward is important to a woman because it shows you aren’t afraid to take charge and be assertive.

Women respond positively to a man who’s confident in himself and his intentions and can sense when you’re nervous or unsure of yourself.

Being straightforward also shows you respect her time and aren’t trying to play games.

So, walk up to her with your head held high, smile warmly, and make eye contact when you speak to her.


Don’t Say This

“This is really random but…”

If she’s under 30, 25 for sure, guaranteed she’s heard this “not so random” line because it’s a standard opener many pickup artists use.

Even I’ve heard it and I’m old! 😉

Knowing how to ask for a woman’s phone number means understanding you’re better off being more genuine by saying something situationally relevant.

Instead, Say This

This one worked on me several years ago…

“Hey, I saw you and thought you looked like a nice person so I wanted to introduce myself, mind if I sit down? My name’s JP.”

This happened to me when I was sitting in a park by myself reading a book.

Why It’s Good

People tend to automatically try to live up to positive expectations.

How could I say “no” to him sitting down after him and saying I’m a nice person?

Yes, some women will say, “no” but you’re more likely to get a gentler rejection.

JP followed up with, “What are you reading?” which allowed a conversation to naturally unfold.

You might also use a more direct approach like “Hi, I saw you and couldn’t help but come over and introduce myself. I’m JP.”

This is a bold, honest approach that’s a bit risky if she hasn’t given you clear signs of interest, but can create a spark if she was on the fence.

Key Point!

Women’s biology (our bodies) cannot help but respond positively to this kind of assertive confidence.

Some dating coaches suggest asking for her name after offering yours.

However, it can be better to wait to see if she tells her name because it’s less intrusive.

If she offers her name at some point without you asking it can also give you a better gauge of her interest.

When you do learn her name, you’ll want to sprinkle it into the conversation.

At the same time, you don’t want to intimidate her too much which brings us to Tip #2… which is in the video along with my other top 8 tips for how to ask for a woman’s phone number…

… plus a bonus tip on closing the deal after following up!

Watch it Now!

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Beyond How to Ask For A Woman’s Phone Number…

If you want a more personalized step-by-step guide for how to develop traits women crave that you’ll respect in yourself and in an authentic way, get my WakeUP2Luv Program here… and do. the. work.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

Nothing changes if you don’t (change).

I believe in you. You got this!

xo Anna

Images and video credits:
Drazen Zigic
Katerina Holmes
Alan Healy
Mike Jones
Edmond Dantès
Keira Burton
Mircea – All in collections
Jonas Leupev

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