If you want a life and relationship fresh start…
One of the most important questions you can ask yourself that will determine your personal happiness in 2024 and beyond is your answer to the question…
How would you like your life and relationships to look in this new year?
Surprisingly, the question is not about how your relationship, marriage and even your relationships with friends, family or co-workers compare to others.
That would be useless.
That’s the comparison trap.
That is a long, dark, dusty road to nowhere but pain, judgment and disappointment.
It’s also not about listening to that nagging, negative inner voice that tells you you can’t have what you want.
What we’re talking about is being conscious about where your compass is pointing and what your intention is for your life and relationships in the coming year and bypassing the fear.
Although we can never be sure what the future holds for us, we can point in the direction we want to go and watch for opportunities that come our way that align with that intention.
And then take action
And the opportunities will appear.
For many years we’d wanted to write a book about love and it just wasn’t coming together. The two of us decided that in 2023, we’d publish that book and we did publish Big Fat Love in July.
It only came into being because we pointed our focus in that direction and took action, even when there were setbacks.
This is also what we do in our relationship.
If we fall short in being kind with one another or not communicating, we re-focus ourselves to what’s important and move on from there.
So if you’d like a renewal and deepening of love in your life or whatever you want more of…
Start with allowing your intention to bubble up inside you.
–It might be better communication with certain loved ones for your relationship to get a fresh start.
–It might be learning how to trust yourself more and be more loving toward YOU.
–It might being kinder to others but still being clear about what you will and won’t do.
Get quiet and allow what you really want to surface…
Without all the stories about what others are doing or not doing.
When you’re not embroiled in your stories, what YOU want becomes clear.
When your stories and beliefs that don’t serve you aren’t clouding your thinking and actions…
You do see opportunities that will lead you in the direction you want or something much better.
Use the beginning of this new year for allowing a better life and relationships to happen.