Monday, April 15, 2024

HOW TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LOSING THE BENEFITS OF SINGLE LIFE – michaelaray.com


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Tomas found out that his common goals were CONNECTION and ATTENTION. He continues his social life, enjoying group’s attention for his sense of humour. He met a beautiful woman and decided to give the relationship an honest try. He noticed that the private time with her, gives “connection and attention” a whole new meaning.Taking time to be with her doesn’t feel like a sacrifice, on the contrary it is something he is looking forward to. He is glad when they both find time, with their busy schedules.

Last week his buddy asked him out. They had a few beers and at 11pm Tomas excused himself because he still wanted to enjoy time with his lady. His friend couldn’t believe it. He thought Tomas was controlled and boring.

Suddenly Tomas realised something. His happiness and freedom is not defined by what others think about him, but by his priorities at that time. He chooses to spend time on what is important to him. Now he finally understood that his married friend, from years back, made a choice to be with his family, and that the three hours out, was simply enough for him. 🙂

You see, you can have both a relationship and activities from your single life. It is not a question of one or the other but about finding a balance. Analogically, you are not deciding between a plate of meat or a plate or potatoes. You want to have some of both and so you make it fit on one plate. In life, when you expect to have both, you will naturally find a balance according to what is important to you at a time.

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