The fact that you have to commit to one person for the rest of your life can be quite terrifying especially for men and they most times develop cold feet when it gets to that point.
However, as a lady, there are some signs to look out for if you’re wondering if he has decided on you and he is ready to take the bold step with you in mind.
Well, wonder no more dear sis, just scroll down and examine these Five steps and if you check at least three, then you know that it’s signed and sealed. Just smile as you await your delivery.
1) HE’S MADE A MAJOR LIFE DECISION WITH YOU.
Men are naturally macho and feel they got it all under control. However, the moment he starts to seek your opinion on major life decisions and issues of importance to him, such as buying properties, switching jobs or even mundane things like whether to buy a dog or what colour to paint his new apartment, then that is a signal that you are paramount on his mind and he wants to be with you for the long haul.
2) HE MAKES YOU A PRIORITY.
Men are naturally protective and make who or what is important to them a priority. So when you start to notice that he puts you first, makes you a priority, place your needs above his, seeks and values your opinion, tells you important stuffs about him which he didn’t have to, goes out of his way to make life easier for you, spends money he really didn’t have to among other things, sweet sis, that is a pointer that he is very serious about you.
3) HE DISCUSSES THE FUTURE WITH YOU.
A man who wants to marry and build a future with you will have conversations about the future with you without blinking an eyelid.
He will talk in practical terms and not in some vague way that will leave you confused.
Topics such as how many children to have, retirement plans and the likes are stuffs he would freely discuss with you to make you know that he is seeing you in his future.
4) FINANCIAL DISCUSSION.
At the initial stage of the relationship, finance is never an issue in fact it’s a no-go area as it can send a wrong signal to the other person.
However, as the relationship progresses, and you find yourselves sharing expenses or even living together then money becomes an issue on the front burner.
For a man to be making financial plans with you means he trusts you and wants to be open with you and take the huge step with you.
5) INNER WITNESS.
There is something called instinct and God gave every one of us for a reason.
Many have stumbled and failed because they refused to listen to their instinct and inner voice.
When you are with the right person, you will know simply because your spirit will bear you witness.
So many have taken this huge step without them having peace in their heart but went ahead anyway because of society and became the worst for it.
If your heart is in tune and at peace with the man you are with, then be rest assured that you are on the right track.
A man can be and do all the four mentioned above but if your instinct and inner voice is saying no, trust me the answer is no.
So listen to your heart and what it is saying, therein lies the answer you seek.
