Welcome back to sex advice from men for women. As always, thank you to the ladies who asked these questions and for the 700+ men who answered them. Let’s dig in:
How long do men want sex to last?
In comparison, this is how long women* prefer sex to last:
50% of women prefer that sex lasts 10-15 minutes.
40% of women prefer that sex lasts 20-30 minutes.
7% of women prefer that sex lasts 35-45+ minutes.
3% of women prefer that sex lasts 5 minutes.
*Based on 286 women who voted.
Looks like the sweet spot for both men and women is around 10-30 minutes.
What’s the best way to initiate sex?
When it comes to initiating sex with men, it’s not complicated. Based on the answers submitted, guys seem to appreciate a very straightforward approach such as:
“Rip my pants off”
“Cuddle with no panties, sometimes guys suck at hints”
“Just start in the middle of the night. Or following an oily massage.”
“Initiating in a lingerie surprise.”
“Go down without asking”
“It’s nice to have a girl take charge every now and then and just grabs and goes for it.”
“Push us up against a wall and start kissing us. We will get rev’d pretty fast. Also, a sext is great’.”
“Just start taking your clothes off.”
“Be dressed up in lingerie unexpectedly when I get home.”
“Just ask for it in a sexy whisper.”
These were just a few out of the 95 men who gave their input. The majority of responses were common in the sense of the girl being spontaneous and taking charge through physical touch or suggestive language.
Do men enjoy ball play?
The original question submitted by a girl from out Instagram community was “Gotta know- sucking on balls. Do guys actually want this?”
I asked one of my guy friends about this and he said:
“Like a little ball play is always fun, but if a girl put my entire balls in her mouth and started sucking it would be weird”. Guys don’t want their balls literally sucked.”
Conversely, a woman from our IG community said:
“I just read the article and I gotta say I have a COMPLETELY different experience when it comes to ball-sucking 😅 my bf LOVES for me to have his balls in my mouth whole and for me to literally suck on them. Licking isn’t enough for him 🤷🏽♀️”.
Everyone has different sexual preferences. The quickest way to find them out is by playfully asking your partner what they prefer/ feels good to them!
Do men enjoy edging?
Edging is getting seconds away from climax and stopping, waiting for a few more seconds then start again, do this a few more times and you are meant to have a longer/ more intense climax.
Unless you’ve talked about edging with your partner and are intentional about it, I don’t recommend doing this for them. They might think you’re blue-balling them 😂.
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Thank you to all the ladies who asked and to all the men who voted/ shared their insight with us.
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